One day I looked in the mirror and could not recognize the image being reflected back to me, that day I decided I needed more help then I could give myself. I had reached 340 pounds; what had I done to myself??!! I decided to have the LAP-BAND placed in March 2001 and thought that this was it for me and I would be forever changed for the better, but my victory was short lived. First of all I had chosen the wrong doctor who did not support me when I needed it. It was difficult to get appointments with him, and trying to talk to him when necessary was near impossible. This was so discouraging at times, especially when I started gaining weight instead of losing it. I was requiring adjustments and was not getting them at the right times, I was having complications and other problems too. To make a long story short after 7 and 1/2 years with the band and many weight fluctuations later I was back up to 315 pounds. I must say that it was not the band that failed, it was a combination of my Doctor not being there for me and myself having other health related problems causing me not to be able to exercise as needed and always feeling hungry no matter how much I ate.
Then in October 2008 I went to the hospital as I was having a lot of pain, I was brought in for an x-ray and they realized I needed to have my band removed as it had slipped. When I found Dr. Joffe, he also did something no other doctor had ever done, he TALKED TO ME!! He was also able to read the pain I was having in my heart and soul from having gone through so much over the last 8 years and knew I needed desperate help before it was too late! We talked for over 45 minutes and examined my options and determined the gastric sleeve was my best option. And my God was he right! I had my surgery on December 1, 2008 and have not looked back since!!! I have had so much success since then it is hard to know where to begin!!
First of all Christmas day 2008 was where I was given the best gift of my whole life, it was from Dr. Joffe; He gave me the gift to live life free of the chains of food and fat! I started working out in January and continued eating right each day following the regime given to me post op. I never feel hungry nor do I have cravings, I can actually live life for me and not for food! I now go cycling each day and try to do at least 30 kms a day 5 days a week, on weekends I take the time to rest and just enjoy my husband and our new life together. The smallest things are such big goals for me now! I can go to any restaurant and order a small meal and be so satisfied, no more need for desserts either. I go to the movies and enjoy the fact I won’t be eating the popcorn or snacks, I go to enjoy the show! I will grab fruit for a snack instead of sweets without hesitation. My intimate life with my husband has developed into something amazing, I feel so sexy and so pretty, inside and out. I can finally say I am happy and mean it for real! This year on my birthday was the first time in a long time where I was happy to have been born and want to sing happy birthday to me all day!! My self-esteem and self-wroth have gone up through the roof, I am so positive and full of life that at times I find myself to be annoying ha-ha!! I have gone from a size 24 to a size 15 and am not done losing yet. I have lost 85 pounds and gained a figure with lots of muscle and looking more and more toned as each day passes. It feels fantastic to wake up in the morning and have such a large wardrobe to select from cause I can now shop at many regular stores and not just the specialty large sized stores. That in itself makes the surgery totally worth it t!!
The gastric sleeve is the best surgery out there in my opinion. No real need for follow ups, no adjustments needed like the band. Should I have any problems I know I can see any doctor in the city where I live and get the help as this is a simple removal of most of the stomach, nothing too complicated for any bariatric or general surgeon to know how to treat. But having had Dr Joffe perform my surgery I know I will have no problems whatsoever. After my surgery I was up and about the hospital on my first day, walking around, slowly but comfortably, and within a few days back home and resting. I believe if you listen to your Doctor and his team of caring staff and follow the instructions given you should be able to have the same experience without incident. In conclusion, I want all to know that having chosen Dr.Joffe to be my surgeon of choice was the best decision ever!!!! The simple fact that he and his team see you as a person before seeing you a patient makes all the difference in the world. Being a large person I was used to being pushed aside and ignored by people and doctors as well, like I was some sort of second class citizen?!
Dr Joffe and his team saw through the fat that was suffocating the real me stuck inside and helped me reach inside and pull that beautiful woman out to see what was waiting for her on the outside. If I can leave anyone a few words of advice, they would be: “DO NOT LET ANYONE OR ANYTHING STAND IN THE WAY OF YOU LIVING THE LIFE THAT YOU DESERVE TO LIVE, BECAUSE NOTHING FEELS AS GOOD AS BEING FREE FROM THE BONDS OF FAT, FOOD AND FAILURE.”