i've been engaged for just over 2 months, and our wedding is not for another few years, but i thought it would be fun to go look at dresses with a girlfriend who is also engaged. winchesters has been my number one spot to go since high school, because that's where ALL the pretty prom dresses came from, and for a great price. so we took the 45 minute bus ride JUST to go there. it was terrible. almost crying in the fitting room is NO way to remember the first time you tried on a wedding dress.
it all began when we walked in, and had to take our shoes off. then we were given odd little rings, and had to give our full address and name, wedding date and type of wedding. i don't know why. they never tried to find anything to go with it. then we had to pick the dresses we wanted, not given any instruction on how sizing works (i'm not a dress person and i have no idea what dress size i am, until today). so we picked a few, and i guessed at my dress size, and i was 1 off. but before we even started looking, the woman, i'm assuming the owner, told me that all these dresses would be gone by the time i get married, and everything would be different (which felt like she was saying 'why are you here wasting our time'). it wasn't friendly. her assistant was, however, and i did enjoy chatting with her.
anyways, i'm a curvy girl, so i knew what i did and didn't want. so i picked the styles and my friend did as well, and we told the lady we wfere ready. they were not too friendly about putting us in rooms across from each other, so they stuck us in the middle, which was fine. i tried my first dress on, and it was too tight, but that was okay. went for the second one, and the owner came over to "help". she grabbed the back of my dress and started pulling it really tight, then said i needed to try on the others. she picked random dresses, threw them in my room and told me to try them on. i liked the first one, but the lacing process was violent, and actually hurt my back. i know it's meant to be tight, but shaking me like a doll at least deserves a "sorry" or "am i hurting you".
after the 3rd dress, i was frustrated. the dress was NOT what i wanted or ANYTHING LIKE what i wanted. it was ugly, and had a ton of layers. not flattering. she told me she was showing me all 4 styles, and that there's nothing else in the store to show me. so i asked if they ever got sleeved dresses, which is what i want, and was told that 'girls who wear sleeved dresses are obviously trying to hide something, but really it just makes you look worse and points out your flaws'.. yeh. not such a nice thing to say. it may be true, but there is a much kinder way to say it. and when my friend said she was going to toronto and thought she'd look for dresses there, the owner bragged that she would never find anything like she has, that she has the best prices, and that girls from all over canada call her for her dresses and only her dresses.
in the end, we left upset, feeling fat from her telling us nothing fits us, and very irritated that she thinks her business is so wonderful that everyone buys from her. honestly, i would spend the extra money in a store if they had great service. this is the WORST service i've ever received in my life, and i wish i would've had the guts to yell in her face. i felt insulted and disrespected. i work in retail and i know what customer service is, and how it affects your business. i hope she either smartens up, or closes down because no bride should be put through that. not a single suggestion i made was taken, and never was i asked 'do you like this one?'. she just laced up everyone she put on me and walked away. i will never buy a dress from her store, and i will gladly take my business elsewhere. she lost 2 sales today, because my friend had similar treatment by her, and felt the same. our fiances are so upset, they have asked to go there and talk with her, but it's not worth their time because she seems stubborn and set in her ways.
to all you brides that had a good experience, that's great, and i really wish i could say the same. i'm really afraid to try dresses on anywhere else for fear of terrible service.
My wife went through the same issue with this store. They were all like "we can't take it out of the display". She left the store, and immediately walked back in and said "how about now?" And they let her try it on. Always ask "how about now?"